Hello everyone, this is Russian with Dasha. This video is going to be in Russian, if you speak English, please turn on the subtitles. Today we have a guest. Yes, this is Artyom from Russian Progress. Hello!
Artyom, hi! If you are not familiar with Artyom – the link is in the description, go to his channel, watch the video. Artyom and I will talk about relationships and Russian girls.
I very often receive direct messages. Guys write: “What should I do? I want to meet a girl, I need to learn Russian, how can I meet Russian girls, or Ukrainian girls who speak Russian? ” Do you think foreigners correctly think that the most beautiful girls are in Russia and Ukraine? Of course I think this is correct, yes. In Poland, too, beautiful girls, well, in general, Slavic girls are very beautiful.
Many are blue-eyed, blonde, with blonde hair. Physically, they are simply beautiful, well, the second factor is that after all, in Russia, Ukraine, Belarus, and so on, they have more traditional views on the family, on relationships, the fact that the girl is the keeper of the house there. I don’t know… All sorts of things. The fact that Russian girls take better care of themselves, because they want to be attractive. What are the ways to find a girlfriend?
They say Tinder is a good way to meet people. I usually use Instagram or life simply. A life? Well, yes, meeting people in real life. Oh, I thought this was some kind of application.
Nope. Now, basically, it seems to me that it is easier to get acquainted on the Internet, well, not through some dating sites, on Tinder, for example, on Instagram.https://www.appbrain.com/app/hinge-dating-app-2020-helper/com.hinji.datin.relasion And Tinder is not a dating site in your opinion? Tinder is an app. Oh… well, it’s still a dating site.
Well, a dating site is something like grandmothers use, you know … Like in Odnoklassniki, my grandmother is using it, on Mail.ru … No, wait, you’re confusing. There are dating sites, when you directly make your page and write what kind of relationship you are looking for … I, for example, met my husband on a dating site.
Oh yes? If we talk about my experience of dating girls from other countries, it is usually connected with the language. For example, she studies Russian, you learn some other language, and you can communicate, and then it might lead to some kind of relationship.
Usually something like that. That is, interest groups, right? Yes, well, to find some common interest, it seems to me. Right.
In general, of course, it is easier to get acquainted in life. Today, for example, I met a girl. How was it?
Tell us, give us a master class. Well, in the subway I liked a girl, I typed on my phone: “If you want to go for a walk with me, type your Instagram.” This is romantic! I gave her my phone silently, I didn’t say anything, I gave her my phone, she wrote her Instagram and that’s it, we added each other. Perhaps the fact that I was wearing a mask helped me.
Such an antivirus dating option, right? When you don’t need to open your mouth. Yes, a life hack. Or you can just walk up to the girl on the street and say: “Hello, would you like to have coffee together?”, Or something like that. Yes, as an example.
Well, I noticed that as soon as I moved to St. Petersburg, people began to approach me more often than in Novosibirsk. Basically, they immediately ask, for example: “Can we get acquainted?” Well, damn it, this is stupid, it seems to me .. Can we get acquainted…
I agree, it’s a little stupid, because … somehow she will most likely say No to you right away. Well, yes. You can, for example … When you approach, you are already getting acquainted, why ask if you can …
Therefore, it’s probably easier to just say: “Hello, let’s go somewhere.” Yes. “I like you” or “you are beautiful” and that’s it. Then an offer to meet. Yes. You can ask for advice, for example, if this is your first time in the city, you can approach a girl and ask: “Hello, could you please tell me what to visit here”, or “where can I see something”, “How can I get to somewhere” … In general, people in Russia are very friendly and like to help, they especially like to give advice.
You can just ask about something. Ask for directions, ask: “Where are the cool bars here?”, And thus get acquainted. Yes.
It often happens that guys write and they immediately begin to communicate very familiarly, for example, if even in your country it is customary to call someone not close to you as “my friend”, “my girlfriend”, in Russia people are quite reserved. Well, yes. .. to communicate with them very closely is wrong. Yes, like writing: “I will take you across a thousand seas… come to my place… you are beautiful… a million hearts… I have never seen such a person”, well, and so on, it immediately, it seems to me, repels. Yes, it is also repulsive when they immediately begin to write: “Where do you live? I want to be your friend”.
People simply do not understand that it is possible to scare a girl. When they ask: “If I come to your city, can you walk with me?” – no, it’s better not to do this right away. Just, on the contrary, make her interested in your qualities, your interests, ask about some neutral things.
What do you suggest asking? If I’m just a girl, not a teacher of Russian, and you open my Instagram and see a photo, you can ask: “Where is this place? What else can you see there? ”. Or ask: “What languages do you know?” Or you can ask, for example: “I have never tried Russian cuisine and am going to Russia, what meal would you recommend me to try?”, saying something neutral, safe.
Hello everyone, this is Russian with Dasha. This video is going to be in Russian, if you speak English, please turn on the subtitles. Today we have a guest. Yes, this is Artyom from Russian Progress. Hello!
Artyom, hi! If you are not familiar with Artyom – the link is in the description, go to his channel, watch the video. Artyom and I will talk about relationships and Russian girls.
I very often receive direct messages. Guys write: “What should I do? I want to meet a girl, I need to learn Russian, how can I meet Russian girls, or Ukrainian girls who speak Russian? ” Do you think foreigners correctly think that the most beautiful girls are in Russia and Ukraine? Of course I think this is correct, yes. In Poland, too, beautiful girls, well, in general, Slavic girls are very beautiful.
Many are blue-eyed, blonde, with blonde hair. Physically, they are simply beautiful, well, the second factor is that after all, in Russia, Ukraine, Belarus, and so on, they have more traditional views on the family, on relationships, the fact that the girl is the keeper of the house there. I don’t know… All sorts of things. The fact that Russian girls take better care of themselves, because they want to be attractive. What are the ways to find a girlfriend?
They say Tinder is a good way to meet people. I usually use Instagram or life simply. A life? Well, yes, meeting people in real life. Oh, I thought this was some kind of application.
Nope. Now, basically, it seems to me that it is easier to get acquainted on the Internet, well, not through some dating sites, on Tinder, for example, on Instagram. And Tinder is not a dating site in your opinion? Tinder is an app. Oh… well, it’s still a dating site.
Well, a dating site is something like grandmothers use, you know … Like in Odnoklassniki, my grandmother is using it, on Mail.ru … No, wait, you’re confusing. There are dating sites, when you directly make your page and write what kind of relationship you are looking for … I, for example, met my husband on a dating site.
Oh yes? If we talk about my experience of dating girls from other countries, it is usually connected with the language. For example, she studies Russian, you learn some other language, and you can communicate, and then it might lead to some kind of relationship.
Usually something like that. That is, interest groups, right? Yes, well, to find some common interest, it seems to me. Right.
In general, of course, it is easier to get acquainted in life. Today, for example, I met a girl. How was it?
Tell us, give us a master class. Well, in the subway I liked a girl, I typed on my phone: “If you want to go for a walk with me, type your Instagram.” This is romantic! I gave her my phone silently, I didn’t say anything, I gave her my phone, she wrote her Instagram and that’s it, we added each other. Perhaps the fact that I was wearing a mask helped me.
Such an antivirus dating option, right? When you don’t need to open your mouth. Yes, a life hack. Or you can just walk up to the girl on the street and say: “Hello, would you like to have coffee together?”, Or something like that. Yes, as an example.
Well, I noticed that as soon as I moved to St. Petersburg, people began to approach me more often than in Novosibirsk. Basically, they immediately ask, for example: “Can we get acquainted?” Well, damn it, this is stupid, it seems to me .. Can we get acquainted…
I agree, it’s a little stupid, because … somehow she will most likely say No to you right away. Well, yes. You can, for example … When you approach, you are already getting acquainted, why ask if you can …
Therefore, it’s probably easier to just say: “Hello, let’s go somewhere.” Yes. “I like you” or “you are beautiful” and that’s it. Then an offer to meet. Yes. You can ask for advice, for example, if this is your first time in the city, you can approach a girl and ask: “Hello, could you please tell me what to visit here”, or “where can I see something”, “How can I get to somewhere” … In general, people in Russia are very friendly and like to help, they especially like to give advice.
You can just ask about something. Ask for directions, ask: “Where are the cool bars here?”, And thus get acquainted. Yes.
It often happens that guys write and they immediately begin to communicate very familiarly, for example, if even in your country it is customary to call someone not close to you as “my friend”, “my girlfriend”, in Russia people are quite reserved. Well, yes. .. to communicate with them very closely is wrong. Yes, like writing: “I will take you across a thousand seas… come to my place… you are beautiful… a million hearts… I have never seen such a person”, well, and so on, it immediately, it seems to me, repels. Yes, it is also repulsive when they immediately begin to write: “Where do you live? I want to be your friend”.
People simply do not understand that it is possible to scare a girl. When they ask: “If I come to your city, can you walk with me?” – no, it’s better not to do this right away. Just, on the contrary, make her interested in your qualities, your interests, ask about some neutral things.
What do you suggest asking? If I’m just a girl, not a teacher of Russian, and you open my Instagram and see a photo, you can ask: “Where is this place? What else can you see there? ”. Or ask: “What languages do you know?” Or you can ask, for example: “I have never tried Russian cuisine and am going to Russia, what meal would you recommend me to try?”, saying something neutral, safe.
Not trying to violate personal boundaries is also very important. To the guys from the West, on the contrary, I will say that sometimes they think that Russian girls are quite rude, because … Due to the fact that we have a difference in mentalities and a difference in languages, we say in Russian: “Give me something, please. ” And in English you will definitely add some additional words.
Well, yes, especially in British English. When you communicate in English with Russian girls, they may seem to you a little rude, very straightforward. You need to learn Russian, then it will definitely be easier for you.
Girls’ Russian. Russian language of girls, yes. There is one book, by the way.
If you are interested in learning the Russian language of girls, and not only Russian, you might have heard of Mark Manson. He wrote The Subtle Art of Not giving a f*ck. Oh, yes, I know this one. And he also has a book called Men’s Rules. It’s about how to better communicate with girls, so that it was more … how to say … well, so as not to make mistakes in communication.
Please tell me, where do guys usually take girls on a date in Russia? How does a first date go in general? Well, we usually have a walk … get some coffee … That’s it. I don’t bother too much, I don’t come up with some kind of locations, just walk, chat, well, it’s better, of course, not to go to the cinema so you can chat.
Therefore, take a walk, if the weather is bad – sit in a cafe, drink coffee, that’s it. Do you invite a girl home right away? Nope.
You also need to keep in mind that it scares away, if you immediately invite a girl to your place, it is suspicious. Therefore, it is better to go to some place where you can chat, where it is quiet, and there is something to do. If you are dating a girl from Russia, from Ukraine …
Pay for her (bill in a cafe). Do not be surprised if she expects from you, firstly, flowers on a date, and secondly, if she expects you to pay the entire bill, perhaps she will consider you rude, if you offer to split the bill, that is all very individual. It is better not to offer the girl to split the bill, if she suggests, then you can say ok, but it’s better not to. Girls in Russia, Ukraine, Belarus are very caring, first of all, they will always take care of you, they have such an instinct. Maternal.
Maternal, yes. Sometimes even too much. But they love attention, they love to do something nice and, for example, can cook your favourite meal, which surprises guys from the west. But.
You should also know that, Slavic girls can be very jealous. I believe that our girls are a little bit possessive. What do you think? Depends on the girl, I think. And on the guy too, I guess.
At school, was it easy for you to talk to girls? Were you a popular guy at school? No, not really.
I was not very popular at school, I was heartbroken, I didn’t even have a girlfriend at school. Throughout my school years. Well, same here, I didn’t have a boyfriend.
I remember my classmates, it seems to me that in Russia girls grow up faster than guys, they start to do make up, start taking care of themselves very early, and the guys are still in this … Puberty period. The older I get, the easier it becomes for me to communicate with girls, because at the age of 20 I looked 15.
You can insert a picture, I’ll send it to you. It seems to me that girls are more interested in communicating not with a boy, but with an older young man. With a boy with a beard. With a boy with a beard, yes. I didn’t have a beard then.
How to meet with her Russian parents? Have you ever been introduced to a girl’s parents? I was never introduced to their parents. Seriously? I have not had such a long relationship…
My longest relationship lasted six months. Nope! I was once. I met her parents.
Well … you just have to be good. In general, you have to be yourself, but it is desirable to be a little better than you are, probably. It is also important to find out the name and patronymic of the parents, because in Russia we call adults … people older than ourselves … by the name and patronymic. It will be good if you know in advance the name and patronymic of the parents and will address them that way.
Right. It is necessary. By name and patronymic. And it will probably be great if you come to visit not with empty hands, but, for example, you can bring some small bouquet of flowers or some kind of dessert.
This is basically a rule for .. if you are invited to someone’s home in Russia, it is advisable to bring something. Yes, we love it when something is brought to tea. We invite people to visit so that they bring something first of all (just kidding). But at the same time, we cook a lot, we prepare so that the guests would be pleased. Finally, let’s think about some phrases that a foreigner needs to know in order to meet a girl.
Well, firstly, it seems to me that it is worth saying the formal ‘you’ (вы) on the street, on the Internet – it is debatable, you need to think about it, look at the situation. Yes, or say вы for the first time, and then ask: “Can we switch to ‘ты’?”. Yes, and the context matters, of course, at the bar it will be strange, if you say вы, it depends on the context.
If you are watching opera, then say вы (or in a museum). Phrases .. “Do you want to take a walk?” Is this a good phrase? Yes. “Let’s go get some coffee.” Come to Russia. Most importantly, if you come to Russia, finding a girlfriend should not be the main goal, get to know the culture first…
Yes, first look at Russia, then … yes. Don’t look at our girls. Try to be interested in the culture of the country and, perhaps, by this interest the girls, don’t come to find a wife here, after all, such offers scare girls on the Internet. Thank you, Artyom. Yes, it was very interesting.
We are sitting on such a hillock … we were looking for a place for filming for a very long time. Go to Artyom’s channel if you have already watched this video, and we will continue our conversation. Yes.
Thanks, bye!