
So the other day I was chatting to a friends and she came to me with a very particular problem, and when I was actually speaking to her I discovered that this problem actually wasn’t very unique to her and the situation was was, that she was about to go on a date with a guy a guy shoots sounds and she was very very attractive very interested in him and then all of a sudden before the date even on the day she messages are saying “I’m sorry I can’t make it… I have something on tonight that are completely forgot about.” and the problem I want to talk to you today about is the concept of “flaking.” So when a guy flakes on you, and this isn’t something that just happens to like, to girls, this is actually something happens to the guys as well. So if you’re a guy watching this, this is also for you, but if you’re watching this this might also you know be worth something. There is a distinction though because someone who flakes on you and someone who cancelled on you for a reason are two completely different things and normally you can tell because if someone actually flakes on you because they’re not that interested in you or they’re not actually quite sure about, you know, what’s actually going to happen or maybe they got something with their ex and that’s stopping them; they might give you some lame excuse or something that’s a bit more, kind of, a bit more up in the air a bit more vague.